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Parents have different stakes and emotions in this all-American rite of passage. The trick is bridging the gap between trust and wise counsel.
Some tips:
• Know and discuss the high school’s code of conduct with your child before the prom;
• Examine whether the school code of conduct extends to off-site functions that have been approved by the school;
• Know who your child is attending the prom with and discuss the events for pre- and post-prom parties with other parents;
• Talk to your teen about the serious dangers and consequences of underage drinking and driving;
• Use specific examples of youngsters who have died or become permanently disabled because they weren’t thinking clearly;
• Discuss travel plans: Know who is driving, use a reputable limousine service, if needed — as in: one that doesn’t allow anyone to bring alcohol into the vehicle;
• Discuss guidelines and a curfew. Set strict consequences for violations;
• Know the location of any parties your child is attending and who is sponsoring them;
• If your youngster’s plans change, confirm it with other parents;
• Let him or her know that you can pick them up at a moment’s notice if necessary.
“By creating boundaries and openly discussing them with your child, parents establish a healthy balance between structure and freedom, allowing you and your child to fully enjoy this experience,” says Rafael Herrera of NY NJ Car Service. CLICK HERE:
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